Wednesday, October 9, 2013

Have some respect people!

Hey, this is going to be one of the heated posts I am going to put up.  Because of the nature of what happened to me last week.  I had my tool box stolen while I was at school.  I mean this is a tool kit for my electronics classes that is charged in my tuition for $500.  I'm not happy.  I think its because of this classmate in my electronics class this quarter.  He simply has no respect for other people or their property. He likes to talk like hes so cool and big.  I get that.  We all do this in a way or another.

This kid is also one of those who is super tall and seems to get away with things.  Not today I'm not one of those guys who just lets people get away with crap like this.  Im sure many of you will agree with me that when somebody messes with you, you want to get back at them or teach them a lesson of not to mess with you.

Some of you are thinking I am going to resort to violence.  I am not I am going to simply be very firm even have a tone of voice that I am a little pissed off about it and see about getting my tools back.  It may be a I jusimple oops my bad and hand me back my tools.  I'm always prepared for a conflict either arguing or just a simple misunderstanding.  I just want to express that I don't like getting messed with and no further bullying shall occur.  I really don't stand for any form of bullying online or in person.  

If anyone should see somebody bullying others, either kids or even your workplace you should get ahold of someone who can talk to or handle the situation.  Because nobody should go through life with a bully.  I did and overcame them.  I'm real passionate about bullying and how to stop it.

A victim of a bully tends to not want to talk about whats going on for fear that the bully will bully him or her harder or that telling on someone is a bad thing.  When in fact if somebody of authority to stop it knows and can do something about it they will.  If they don't or wont listen to you, you need to talk to the school principal or a manager at work who can talk to the person.  Its hard to see a person endure things like this.  In the days where I was the victim I never knew who to talk to because it would seem they wouldn't listen or the bully would instantly know what I did and bully me harder.

Sometimes the bully doesn't know that he or she is doing the bullying.  But most of the time they do know and they enjoy doing it because it makes them feel good.  Sometimes people can bully out of pressure from others.  Its a vicious cycle.  The victims need to know that they have support and people to talk to and people who are willing to listen to them and to cheer them up.  Because I didn't have that support.  People always assumed I was just being a wuss.

If only those same kids now grown up could see me now.

So take it from me and just have some common sense and to use that brain a little bit harder ok?

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